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Jill Hutchison, Evolve Dynamic
Perth Executive Coach | Strategic Conversations and Confidence for Leaders
In October I will be walking 100km in the Oxfam Trailwalker event in Perth. Yes I did this last year – so why am I doing it again?
Well, I honestly enjoyed training for last years walk and I actually enjoyed the walk itself! I enjoyed how healthy I felt with all the walking training, fresh air and inspiring conversations.
Not only that, but the walk itself reinforced to me the value of setting big goals and having small realistic incremental goals to strive for.
So here are my lessons!
When I set the goal to walk 100km I didn’t know if I could do it because I’d never done it before! I had severe knee problems during training so even 3 weeks beforehand I didn’t know if I could do the 100km. Medical experts recommended that I didn’t do it because of my knees. But with training and small achievable goals in between, and lots of help from family, friends and a medical team, we did it!
During the event I simply focused on the next checkpoint. They were roughly 10km apart. It’s so much easier to focus on the next 10km. Try focusing on how you’re going to do the next 95km when you’re only 5km into the walk! There were honestly some times where I really couldn’t even contemplate the 100km, so I put that out my mind and simply counted my steps till the next checkpoint.
Life’s a bit like that – there are times where we can’t even visualise achieving our big goal but we can focus on small daily tasks that will get us one step closer. AS LONG AS WE ARE CLEAR ON WHAT WE WANT!
I cleared appointments and networking events out of my diary so that I could meet weekly with others who were doing walking training. If you’re too busy in life, you might be too busy to achieve your goals. Goals do need ‘training’ in various forms. Just like our walking training wasn’t only about physical fitness, it was mostly about the mental training. We also had to figure out what shoes worked best. Which socks worked. Now that took some time – to figure out the sock-thing! Seems such a small thing but it was really important as blisters are the number one reason why people don’t finish the Oxfam 100km event. Sometimes it’s the small things that are seemingly unimportant that can either help or hinder us achieving our goal.
This is critical. It comes in two parts: for the training it’s much easier to get into a routine with others who are training and wanting to wear out their treads in achieving their goals. It can be so much fun – our training walks certainly were and continue to be!
For the team you do the event with: choose people who have similar goals and abilities to you. Unfortunately I was the slowest walker in my 2013 team and this caused much frustration for the others. I would have been frustrated too, if I’d had to walk with someone much slower than my natural walking pace. But the rules of the game are that you only walk as fast as the slowest walker. Being honest about this upfront can save unnecessary angst during the event. This year I’m walking with the team that I have done lots of walking with, so we know our paces fairly well.
It makes life much easier if you have a mentor or coach who can guide you along your journey.
We all know the obvious element of training to get fitness up. Some people think they can get fitness up in other things like running, playing squash or doing other activities. For an endurance walk such as the 100km Oxfam, walking training is really important. The way our bodies move while walking is different to the way we move in other activities.
While other activities can bring fitness up, it cannot prepare us mentally for what we go through while trudging for miles and miles. Footwear is key, as is the right backpack, the right food and water, the right clothing to keep you comfortable at all times. When you do 10km walks weekly and the odd 30-50km on various weekends, you figure out what works best for your body.
The biggest challenge of the Oxfam (apart from blisters) is the mental challenge. Working with the team when everyone is tired, wondering if you’ll make it, can create tension and upset. It’s better to get these issues resolved during training rather than when you’re walking the 100km Oxfam Perth event in October!
When you know what your number one goal is, then it’s easy to know what training to do for it. If you don’t know what your goal is, it’s hard to know what training to do. This is when people get BUSY, rather than being productive and getting results. Speak to Jill about getting clear on your goals.
I found it useful to set my intention for the walk from very early on. Here was my intention statement written down in the future, but in present tense. I set it for 5 days after the event because it was really important to me that I could still walk (after all my knee issues) after the event! If your goal is to cross the finish line and you don’t care about the next day, you can push yourself a bit harder and pick up the pieces later!
“I am so happy and grateful that I have finished the Oxfam 100km walk. I really enjoyed it, connected with others along the way AND it’s great to walk with ease right now!”
This intention sets the tone for your training and for your main event. I have a business and a husband and three kids to take care of, I can’t afford time on my back at that time of the year!!
My intention was to be able to walk with ease in the days immediately afterwards. I adjusted my pace so that my body was comfortable. I also ensured that I did my stretches and fed myself proper nutrition during the walk.
Attitude is a topic that I cover in my talks – how to change your attitude, how to know which attitude is the best to have. Of course, the Attitude of Gratitude is one that makes a big difference.
In an endurance race, it’s about finishing, not about winning. Some teams raced through and others ambled. Provided your entire team feels the same about this as you do, then that pace is right for you, no matter what it is. However, we did hear stories of fit military folk who pulled out at the 70km mark because they didn’t think they could finish. They’d pushed themselves so hard that they had nothing left in the tank. They would easily have finished even if they had laid down for a nap for half the day and walked the rest of the way, but they were already beaten mentally.
During our training it became obvious to me that when I pushed my body past the 5km per hour mark for longer than 20km, my knees got really sore and in some case were injured. (Patella femoral maltracking with bursitis on both knees was the issue if you really want to know: the knee cap was being pulled outward and the knee joint was rubbing in all the wrong places underneath the patella, which became worse as I speeded up.)
By pacing myself at under 5km per hour on the flat and under 4km per hour on the rougher bits, sometimes 2.5km per hour, I knew my knees would hold up AND be able to function the following day. Ambling along would get me there. Also known as ‘slowing down to speed up!’
This was a major learning curve for me. I learnt patience and pacing. I learnt to appreciate my body and listen to what was actually going on, rather than allowing adrenalin to pull me through. Short events can be done using adrenalin, but long endurance events need to have a different strategy. It’s the same with BIG goals. They need a different strategy to those quick little goals.
For a short event, we have enough reserves to cope. For a 100km walk over two long days – or 34 hours of walking – our body needs sustained nutrition. There is lots written about what that nutrition is, so I won’t go into it here.
Filling up your mental tank is not spoken about quite as much. This is an area that I’m passionate about. Filling your mind with positive, inspirational stories helps you to pull through the tough spots. Filling one’s mind with negative self-defeating stories makes us want to give up.
This ties into who you need to connect with. Surrounding yourself with positive people who will encourage you on your journey makes a huge difference. While I was walking, it was really encouraging thinking of those who had sponsored our team financially and emotionally. Knowing that I had friends thinking of us and tracking our progress kept me taking one more step closer towards my goal.
Be an inspiration to your family. When we were walking towards the finish line, seeing our husbands and children waiting for us was an incredible feeling. In some small way I hope it has encouraged them to work towards goals that they are passionate about. They saw when times were getting tough, and they saw the victory at the end. It is quite a nice balanced view of life I think – to know that we can work through the tough times and will have success along the way too!
Thank you to all our sponsors, supporters and friends. You make the world of difference to us and to Oxfam and to those that Oxfam supports.
We have been really impressed with what Oxfam does and with their organisation. This event is incredibly well run – and if this is how they do other things, then I know our money is going towards a very worthwhile cause.
What are your big goals?
Written by Jill Hutchison
As I write my gratitude list tonight, it’s almost bitter-sweet. I do indeed have so much to be grateful for – I have a family that loves me, food to eat, a house that is warm and cosy. Now that I think about it, I have nearly everything I could possibly want or need.
I’ve just had a cup of tea with my 86-year old neighbor that lives on her own who inspires me.
I have watched the video of Nick Vujicic – no arms, no legs. He turned a life without limbs into a life without limits. It made me feel incredibly fortunate for such a ‘normal’ existence. With a whole family of fully-limbed people, what do we have to complain about?
We heard about friends in my hometown whose house burnt down in the night. Fortunately everyone got out in time. It was a beautiful old home. Imagine going through that, seeing everything going up in flames – all your important documents, favourite furniture, photographs of weddings and births. Losing some things that can never be replaced.
An American friend told me he’d filed for bankruptcy today. I’m at a loss for words.
What am I grateful for? So much. Why do I feel a disquiet as I ponder all this, I ask myself?
Is it because it sounds like I’m gloating when I think of all the events of the day? I’m certainly not! Why do I have my house to sleep in tonight, when someone else does not?
I’m feeling an intense gratitude – even luck – that we are in such a good position. One just never knows when disaster strikes and you lose it all.
There is a fine line between bragging about your good fortune, and writing about it in your journal. In your gratitude journal, you are free to celebrate anything, without worrying about how it’s going to sound, or look, to someone who doesn’t have everything that you do.
Choosing not to be grateful for what you have doesn’t bring anything to those who don’t have. Focusing on what you do have makes you realize how fortunate you really are. Then you can look for ways that you can make a difference to those less fortunate.
Here’s the thing: When you focus on being grateful, you realize how much you have. When you’re not making a conscious effort to be grateful, you see only what you lack. For everything that you have, there are others around you that don’t have this. For everything that you lack, there are people who have them, but don’t feel grateful for them. I’ve heard many people come through my workshops saying that they are grateful, they count their blessings every day – but it’s only when they write them down daily that they truly feel grateful with every ounce of their being.
Wanting more things, more possessions – when you get them, it doesn’t make you feel any more satisfied once the novelty wears off. A new Iphone 4 is soon replaced by Iphone 4S and then Iphone 5. The iPad gets updated every few months.
No sooner do you get a new car and it becomes a second hand car! The more you drive it, the older it gets. There will always be a newer model being released – it’s just a matter of time.
Gratitude is the emotion that fills us up, makes us feel happier with life.
When you’re facing a challenge in business, you want to step up and play a bigger game, you need to have a positive mindset. Your entire being needs to be geared up so you can take the actions you need to take to get where you want to go. Being grateful gets you into this state. You start to see things as opportunities rather than as disasters. It’s easier to focus on the most important things, and leave the little things that keep you busy but not productive. You can choose whether you want to have busy-ness, or be in business.
Get your own Attitude of Gratitude Journalto write in by visiting http://www.jillhutchison.com/gratitude-journal/
What are your thoughts?
Jill Hutchison
Perth, Australia
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We’ve had such good feedback from men and women who attended the It’s My Time and Goal Achiever workshops in 2009 and 2010, that I decided to run another one next week.
While I certainly don’t want to build my marketing reputation on kicking people into action, it did amuse me how many people said they got the ‘kick up the butt’ they were needing! It has ranged from starting your own business, requalifying to do what you love, changing jobs, to writing books. I just love seeing the light go on when you realize that what you want is in reach, you’d just forgotten to set your sights on what you want. Having the right mindset around your goals is key.
You see, most people set goals in line with their current results. When things are going well, it’s easier to dream bigger and imagine that you can get what you dream of. When you have a setback, or a major change that causes you to have to go back to basics, or tighten your belt- then we are tempted to set goals that are based on the bare minimum of what we need, rather than what we want.
What is wrong with that? Well, on the surface, not much really – if you need a certain income to meet your expenses, then you need it. BUT when you’re setting goals on what you need rather than what you want, there is no inspiration in those goals. They are a to-do list rather than a goal.
When you set goals that get you excited, that wake you up in the morning, those are the goals that motivate you and get you moving. These are the goals that very often come true easier and quicker than you thought possible.
Think about all the goals you’ve set over the years. Some were achieved with no effort at all. Some were only achieved with massive effort. Some didn’t even happen, even though they seemed really realistic and achievable, but somehow didn’t pan out. These are the ones that you set because you thought you could have them, not because you wanted them. What has the difference been?
The ones you were excited about – and were in line with your gifts and talents, those were the ones that happened easier than you thought possible. The ones that somehow didn’t pan out – you probably found other things that you were more motivated about. Let me know what you think!
There are two opportunities for you to dig into your goals – wherever you are in the world. If you’re in Western Australia, I am running the It’s My Time workshop next Thursday 23 August. Click here to book
book now if you want to have your goals all written up and ready to action before spring arrives!
If you’re not able to get to my live event, then you’ll be pleased to know that I have recorded an online program that will be ready very soon. I’ll let you know when you can start ordering it. Two of my goals this year: To publish my book and to get a video product out that can be used by anyone anywhere in the world. I have a bit of work ahead of me, but we’re on track! I’m very conscious that we are just over 4 months away from the end of the year, so that keeps me focused on getting very exciting information out so that you can share it with others. Watch this space!
Enjoy the rest of your Chooseday,
Kind regards
Jill
Jill Hutchison
Tap Your Next Power Mentor
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“The Law of Attr-Action is not about waiting, prayer, meditation, or chanting your way to wealth. The second part of the word is Action! And you must find and take the right action. Forget the idea that someone, somehow in someway will deliver a big TV, money or a car to you.
Get off your ass, and provide the services, product, knowledge or ideas you have to someone in fair exchange. Then the Law of Attraction will work for you.” John Assaraf.
The Law of Attraction states that what we desire is what we will get. The thoughts that we pour into our mind will manifest. What many readers of “The Secret” missed when reading it is the action piece! Critics certainly picked up on this piece, but failed to realise that when we get really excited about a goal in our mind, we take the action necessary to achieve it.
If sitting on the sofa wishing for things, without having to put any action, brought exactly what we wanted, we’d all own sofa businesses! Can you imagine what a great business idea that would be? Buy this sofa and get exactly what you want in life!
When you get clear on what you want, taking action is easy. You almost feel compelled to take action rather than forcing yourself to take action. That’s the difference! When you are passionate about your goal, you can’t help but start to move in its direction.
When last did you get really clear on what you want? When last did you tap your powerful skills and actions?
Join me at the It’s My Time workshop if you’re in Perth. (click here for more info).
Jill Hutchison
Jill Hutchison is the “Tap Your Next Power Mentor” taking successful, driven professionals into their next stage of growth and advancement, the one they are struggling to see and tap, the one that will open the throw doors to the next phase of their life.
Evolve Dynamic Pty Ltd
www.evolvedynamic.net
www.jillhutchison.lifesuccessconsultants.com
Mobile: +61 419194323
Skype contact: jilhutch
Duncraig, Perth, Western Australia
For further information, please place your details in this box and I will contact you
“The Law of Attr-Action is not about waiting, prayer, meditation, or chanting your way to wealth. The second part of the word is Action! And you must find and take the right action. Forget the idea that someone, somehow in someway will deliver a big TV, money or a car to you.
Get off your ass, and provide the services, product, knowledge or ideas you have to someone in fair exchange. Then the Law of Attraction will work for you.” John Assaraf.
The Law of Attraction states that what we desire is what we will get. The thoughts that we pour into our mind will manifest. What many readers of “The Secret” missed when reading it is the action piece!
If sitting on the sofa wishing for things, without having to put any action, brought exactly what we wanted, we’d all own sofa businesses! Can you imagine what a great business idea that would be? Buy this sofa and get exactly what you want in life!
When you get clear on what you want, taking action is easy. You almost feel compelled to take action rather than forcing yourself to take action. That’s the difference! When you are passionate about your goal, you can’t help but start to move in its direction.
When last did you get really clear on what you want? When last did you tap your powerful skills and actions?
Jill Hutchison
Jill Hutchison is the “Tap Your Next Power Mentor” taking successful, driven professionals into their next stage of growth and advancement, the one they are struggling to see and tap, the one that will open the throw doors to the next phase of their life.
Evolve Dynamic Pty Ltd
www.evolvedynamic.net
www.jillhutchison.lifesuccessconsultants.com
Mobile: +61 419194323
Skype contact: jilhutch
Duncraig, Perth, Western Australia
For further information, For further information, please place your details in this box and I will contact you
“It has been a pleasure working with Jill. She brings another angle to our Property Mentor group, another voice and another perspective. Jill is strong, and challenging in our branch discussions and she brings the best out of our team. Our Property Mentor teams also relish having a fresh voice and fresh perspective on things.
Jill have made us stretch our boundaries and our goals. Jill challenges on our business goals as well as our personal and health goals. She is well liked and well respected by our group.
Jill is professional but fun, and we consider her an important part of our ongoing business success. If you are not already using her to show you how to Tap Your Next Power in the team, I recommend that you do”.
Garth Davis
Top Branch Manager for The Investor Club.
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