“Dear Jill,
Thank you so much for encouraging my daughter. She has found it very helpful.
In fact she gave a speech today at school on what you had shared with her – gratitude etc – and got top marks.”
Mother, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa
The Law of Non-Resistance!
The theme this week is The Law of Non-Resistance – which Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey discuss as being in the flow. Where in our lives are we resisting what we could simply flow around? Mary talks about a river flowing – when it encounters a boulder in the way, it doesn’t waste it’s energy on how to move the boulder out the way, it simply flows around it.
Wayne Dyer also talks about non-resistance. I really enjoy his quotes and enjoyed seeing him in Perth (August 2010)
I have listened to his CD series “There is a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem” several times – and still keep getting new information from his talks!
“Everything you are against weakens you. Everything you are for empowers you.” What we focus upon, we get more of.
So if you are finding that you’re regularly saying ‘It’s all too hard’ then ask yourself what you’re resisting? When we focus on the problems in our lives – whether they be financial, health, business, employees, tenants, investments, property – we see more problems. We spend our energy resisting the challenges, instead of looking for ways to flow around them – to stay in the flow and get to our end goal in a different, easier way.
Jill Hutchison
Attitude Adjustment Coach + LifeSuccess Consultant
Perth Australia
Your Daily Dream Builder – True Growth
Hi,
Nature uses a birth canal to bring about new life. So if you’re feeling squeezed right now, it is because something is seeking to be born in you today.
True growth causes us to expand our life. Growth is rarely ever easy, but is always fruitful and worth the work.
What great gift is seeking to emerge in you today? Can you name it?
Many Blessings,
Mary Morrissey
www.MaryMorrissey.com
Your Daily Dream Builder
Some think that we must deal with two polarizing forces at once. They think that to attract good we must do away with bad, but this is not true.
For example: if we’re cold, we do not work with the cold and the heat alike in order to get warm. We build a fire. We work with the heat. As we gather around that fire, we enjoy the heat that is extended from it and we become warm. We build warmth and the cold naturally disappears.
As we focus on and resonate with the ideas which we are seeking to express, there is actually a generative frequency that goes into the universe. This frequency attracts unto it that which it is like.
We build our attraction frequency in the same way we’d build a fire. Have fun today building your attraction frequency.
Many Blessings,
Mary Morrissey
http://www.marymorrissey.com
Napoleon Hill on success and effort
“If a steamship lost its rudder in mid-ocean and began circling around, it would soon exhaust its fuel supply without reaching shore, despite the fact that it would use up enough energy to carry it to shore and back several times. The man who labors without a definite purpose that is backed up by a definite plan for its attainment resembles the ship that has lost its rudder.
Hard labor and good intentions are not sufficient to carry a man through to success, for how may a man (or woman) be sure that he has attained success unless he has established in his mind some definite object that he wishes?”
If you’re not clear on where you really want to go, you may end up being very busy but not getting anywhere! You may also get frustrated, exhausted and burnt out.
Working with a professional coach to uncover your real goals – the ones that will inspire you to do what needs doing – is a great way to have achievement.
Jill Hutchison is available to speak to you and your team – to improve productivity, increase motivation – and better staff retention with less stress.
For further information, please place your details in this box and I will contact you
Jill is not just a coach, but a driving force to success!
“Jill has always had such faith in me and what I can achieve both personally and in business. Not only has she studied with the best (Bob Proctor), but really LIVES this attitude – both professionally and at home with her husband and children. She is not just a coach but a driving force to success!!”
Tracey Loubser, Confident Cashflows, Perth. http://www.efinancialmanagement.com.au/
Are emotions good or bad?
“It’s over, the mine’s closing – we’ve got to move.” These were the words I heard on January 21st 2009 at 7:49am when my husband called me from work. Three months later, over 1000 people who worked at the nickel mine were out of a job, including my husband.
This is the time when I truly realised how important it was to deal with emotions and to decide which feelings and emotions will serve us best to get us where we want to be.
I also realised how crucial it was to have a coach or mentor to hold me accountable to my goals, particularly at a challenging time like that; Someone who could focus my attention on the opportunities that this unique situation was presenting to me.
Are certain emotions bad? Are there some that we shouldn’t feel? What about the positive thinking fans – are they saying we should be happy all the time?
All emotions have a purpose. In my opinion all emotions are good and healthy!
No-one can tell you which emotions are the ones that are best for you at any point. You are the only one who can control your emotions by selecting which thoughts to plant in your conscious mind.
I use the word “control” lightly – I believe in controlling emotions through selective thoughts that create the feelings. If there is strong emotion due to a great event, it’s important to acknowledge it rather than try and push it down. What happens when you put a lid tightly onto a pot boiling on a stove? It tends to stay on there till the pressure is too strong, at which point it will burst right off. Feel the feelings and verbalise them if you can – channel them in a productive way.
If you are standing on a ledge on the 11th floor, then fear is probably a good emotion to have – it may make you cling to the building and shrink back inside or ask for help. With no fear at all in this instance, you might not live very long! (or is that the reason you were up on the 11th floor ledge anyway?)
Sometimes anger and/or frustration are what you need to get you out of your comfort zone and into action. Complacency keeps us where we are and doesn’t move us anywhere.
The key with emotions and feelings is to recognise that you have the ability to select which emotions you choose to feel for most of the time. Obviously if something happens – a disaster, losing a loved one, the instant reaction is to feel sad, scared or various degrees of upset.
Thoughts cause feelings. You can choose the thoughts that occupy your conscious mind on a daily basis (you can’t always prevent outside intervention from delivering an event that elicits a powerful emotion).
Think of a blackboard – was there a time in your school life that you had blackboards in your classroom? (I’m ageing myself here!) – do you remember when someone scraped their nails down the board and sent shivers down your spine? You can probably feel those shivers right now, even though you are no where near a blackboard! All I have done is planted a thought in your mind, and you instantly feel the feeling. This is how powerful your mind is!
You have the power to choose whether to have the TV on or off. You can listen to any radio station or youtube channel you choose. If one of your loved ones is watching something that gives you a feeling you’d rather not have right now, then you can walk away – you don’t have to sit and watch it!
Where do you really want to end up? What do you choose to do or to be for the rest of your life? If you want to be more successful in business, and are facing some economic challenges, then you might want to screen the information coming into your mind.
Bad news sells media more successfully than good news does, that’s simply a fact of life.
If you are listening to doom and gloom stories on the news, and dwell on these, you might feel down and despondent. Will this be the catalyst you need to get into action to increase your business? In some cases it might, but in most cases, this causes procrastination and a sense of feeling “what’s the point?”
Which emotions or feelings are going to serve you going forward? I would like to suggest that positive uplifting feelings (gratitude, happiness, laughter, optimism) would be more productive than the feelings that create a lower vibration, such as sadness, fear, anger.
Following that phonecall, I experienced first-hand the effects of selectively choosing my emotions. We could dwell in the thoughts of how unfair the situation was (we loved living in this beautiful little coastal village – and had only settled there 18 months before) or we could focus on what outcome we wished to experience. I chose to focus on the outcome, even though there were days where I would rather have yelled and screamed and got more frustrated!
As a new business owner, I recognised that one of the solutions was to increase business coming to me. The funny thing was that on days where I was focused on this aim, I was amazed at how many successful phonecalls I made, how I was invited to speak to businesses and groups far and wide. On days where I chose to go into town and chat to everyone, hearing all the stories of challenges various families were facing, even though I still felt optimistic – those were the days where I made little progress in my business.
You see, when our vibration is low, we don’t feel like taking the action to do the things that get us results. Put a thought into your mind, it creates the feeling, the feeling affects the action we take – and it’s the actions that get results.
When everything is hunky-dory, you can absorb a lot more than you can when you’re facing a challenge. Bad news is like water off a duck’s back when everything is going as you wish it to. But when you are faced with a challenge that you want to overcome or turn into a benefit, then you need to selectively only entertain thoughts that serve you to get where you want to go.
I would like to challenge you to think of which feelings and emotions are serving you right now? Are you feeling like a victim? That the company you worked for gave you a really raw deal? Perhaps they did – but your feeling like a victim and allowing it to eat into your soul is not doing anything to them – it’s only destroying you.
Do you feel like no-one appreciates what you do? Perhaps you’re not appreciating what you do! Bitterness twists your soul – and sours all the relationships you have.
If you would like to feel greater happiness, better business success and a more rewarding life, then you will probably decide to focus on the things around you that are going right. What are you grateful for? What thoughts do you need to think to get you there?
When your mind is occupied by positive thoughts, you are much better equipped to deal with the challenges life throws out. If you’re dwelling on the injustices, another challenge is going to feel like you’re drowning at sea and being hit by yet another wave.
Put everything into perspective:
What is the problem not?
Less than a month after the news of job losses and mine closures were announced, everything was put into perspective for us.
Bush fires in Victoria, Australia, claimed thousands of lives and homes – and went on for days. My heart went out to the families that lost loved ones, lost their homes and pets in the fire. The little issues we were facing were so tiny in comparison.
Look at whatever challenge you might be facing right now and identify what the problem really is, and what it’s not. Is it a matter of life and death? Is it a matter of health? Is it about money? Is it about relationships? Is it about business?
What positive memories or events could come out of this that could make a wonderful difference in your life? Sometimes it takes losing someone near and dear to us to shock us into valuing those left behind.
Have a wonderful day,
Kind regards
Jill
“When we change the way you look at things, the things around you begin to change” Wayne Dyer.
If you live in Perth or Sydney, Dr Wayne Dyer is coming to Australia in August 2010. Well worth going to listen to him and the other great speakers.
Jill Hutchison, Attitude Adjustment Coach, LifeSuccess Consultant.
For further information for motivational and inspirational business workshops , please place your details in this box and I will contact you
Wayne Dyer and Caroline Myss are coming to Perth soon!
Wayne Dyer is one of my favourite authors. I love the way he talks and can listen to his CD’s for hours
“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at begin to change.” is one of the quotes that has been most meaningful in my life. His perspective that we can influence the world around us is one that is proving more and more correct. As we change our thoughts, our actions change – we alter the way we react to situations, the way we react to the people in our lives. Of course this changes everything around us!
Hayhouse Australia have an earlybird special on their tickets for “I Can Do It” in Perth and Sydney on their website:
http://www.hayhouse.com.au – it will be an awesome weekend, looking forward to seeing you there!
Wayne W. Dyer, Ph.D., is an internationally renowned author and speaker in the field of self-development. He’s the author of 30 books, has created many audio programs and videos, and has appeared on thousands of television and radio shows. His books Manifest Your Destiny, Wisdom of the Ages, There’s a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem, and The New York Times bestsellers 10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace, The Power of Intention, Inspiration, and Change Your Thoughts—Change Your Life have all been featured as National Public Television specials.
Wayne holds a doctorate in educational counseling from Wayne State University and was an associate professor at St. John’s University in New York. Website: www.DrWayneDyer.com
Thought is real….
We are surrounded by a vast ocean of thought stuff. We are always thinking and our thoughts pass like currents of electricity or tiny streaks of light.
It’s just as easy for us to think around the globe as it is to think across the room. Pay attention to that. It takes no more energy to dream a big dream, than it does to think puny ideas.
Think thoughts the size of the success you would like to have. This subtle element is fast and powerful.
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