Discover the other 11 laws that weren’t covered in The Secret. Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey have combined their knowledge and learning to bring you some fantastic stuff in this audio. For more information click here.
The Best One I have come across thus far…
Having been exposed to numerous self improvement and goal achieving seminars, when I first met Jill Hutchison, I thought, here we go, another life coach!
However when I heard her story around the difficulties her and her family had faced shortly after arriving in Australia and how within 12 months she had accomplished so much, I decided to sign up for her goal achiever course. Since completing the course in February this year, I am amazed by how quickly I have been moving towards my personal and financial goals.
The goal achiever program is, in my opinion, the best one I have come across thus far and one I have stuck to….because it works!
Rupen Kotecha
Director
CFO Centre
Part time CFO’s for ambitious businesses
The Law of Non-Resistance!
The theme this week is The Law of Non-Resistance – which Bob Proctor and Mary Morrissey discuss as being in the flow. Where in our lives are we resisting what we could simply flow around? Mary talks about a river flowing – when it encounters a boulder in the way, it doesn’t waste it’s energy on how to move the boulder out the way, it simply flows around it.
Wayne Dyer also talks about non-resistance. I really enjoy his quotes and enjoyed seeing him in Perth (August 2010)
I have listened to his CD series “There is a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem” several times – and still keep getting new information from his talks!
“Everything you are against weakens you. Everything you are for empowers you.” What we focus upon, we get more of.
So if you are finding that you’re regularly saying ‘It’s all too hard’ then ask yourself what you’re resisting? When we focus on the problems in our lives – whether they be financial, health, business, employees, tenants, investments, property – we see more problems. We spend our energy resisting the challenges, instead of looking for ways to flow around them – to stay in the flow and get to our end goal in a different, easier way.
Jill Hutchison
Attitude Adjustment Coach + LifeSuccess Consultant
Perth Australia
Expand your thinking!
I recently started a new business. I originally hired Jill Hutchison, from Evolve Dynamic, as a business coach to motivate and keep me focused on achieving my goals. Jill certainly has kept me motivated and inspired but has gone well beyond my expectations. Jill has expanded my thinking way beyond what I had ever imagined by challenging ideas, removing self imposed boundaries and opening up my mind to new possibilities and opportunities.
She literally brings the creativity right out of you, turning ideas you thought impossible into reality. She has taken my business plans to a new level, six months ago I would not have imagined I’d be speaking with and working alongside some of the best mentors available in my industry.
Kevin McAfee,
Ocean Reef, Perth
Napoleon Hill on success and effort
“If a steamship lost its rudder in mid-ocean and began circling around, it would soon exhaust its fuel supply without reaching shore, despite the fact that it would use up enough energy to carry it to shore and back several times. The man who labors without a definite purpose that is backed up by a definite plan for its attainment resembles the ship that has lost its rudder.
Hard labor and good intentions are not sufficient to carry a man through to success, for how may a man (or woman) be sure that he has attained success unless he has established in his mind some definite object that he wishes?”
If you’re not clear on where you really want to go, you may end up being very busy but not getting anywhere! You may also get frustrated, exhausted and burnt out.
Working with a professional coach to uncover your real goals – the ones that will inspire you to do what needs doing – is a great way to have achievement.
Jill Hutchison is available to speak to you and your team – to improve productivity, increase motivation – and better staff retention with less stress.
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Are emotions good or bad?
“It’s over, the mine’s closing – we’ve got to move.” These were the words I heard on January 21st 2009 at 7:49am when my husband called me from work. Three months later, over 1000 people who worked at the nickel mine were out of a job, including my husband.
This is the time when I truly realised how important it was to deal with emotions and to decide which feelings and emotions will serve us best to get us where we want to be.
I also realised how crucial it was to have a coach or mentor to hold me accountable to my goals, particularly at a challenging time like that; Someone who could focus my attention on the opportunities that this unique situation was presenting to me.
Are certain emotions bad? Are there some that we shouldn’t feel? What about the positive thinking fans – are they saying we should be happy all the time?
All emotions have a purpose. In my opinion all emotions are good and healthy!
No-one can tell you which emotions are the ones that are best for you at any point. You are the only one who can control your emotions by selecting which thoughts to plant in your conscious mind.
I use the word “control” lightly – I believe in controlling emotions through selective thoughts that create the feelings. If there is strong emotion due to a great event, it’s important to acknowledge it rather than try and push it down. What happens when you put a lid tightly onto a pot boiling on a stove? It tends to stay on there till the pressure is too strong, at which point it will burst right off. Feel the feelings and verbalise them if you can – channel them in a productive way.
If you are standing on a ledge on the 11th floor, then fear is probably a good emotion to have – it may make you cling to the building and shrink back inside or ask for help. With no fear at all in this instance, you might not live very long! (or is that the reason you were up on the 11th floor ledge anyway?)
Sometimes anger and/or frustration are what you need to get you out of your comfort zone and into action. Complacency keeps us where we are and doesn’t move us anywhere.
The key with emotions and feelings is to recognise that you have the ability to select which emotions you choose to feel for most of the time. Obviously if something happens – a disaster, losing a loved one, the instant reaction is to feel sad, scared or various degrees of upset.
Thoughts cause feelings. You can choose the thoughts that occupy your conscious mind on a daily basis (you can’t always prevent outside intervention from delivering an event that elicits a powerful emotion).
Think of a blackboard – was there a time in your school life that you had blackboards in your classroom? (I’m ageing myself here!) – do you remember when someone scraped their nails down the board and sent shivers down your spine? You can probably feel those shivers right now, even though you are no where near a blackboard! All I have done is planted a thought in your mind, and you instantly feel the feeling. This is how powerful your mind is!
You have the power to choose whether to have the TV on or off. You can listen to any radio station or youtube channel you choose. If one of your loved ones is watching something that gives you a feeling you’d rather not have right now, then you can walk away – you don’t have to sit and watch it!
Where do you really want to end up? What do you choose to do or to be for the rest of your life? If you want to be more successful in business, and are facing some economic challenges, then you might want to screen the information coming into your mind.
Bad news sells media more successfully than good news does, that’s simply a fact of life.
If you are listening to doom and gloom stories on the news, and dwell on these, you might feel down and despondent. Will this be the catalyst you need to get into action to increase your business? In some cases it might, but in most cases, this causes procrastination and a sense of feeling “what’s the point?”
Which emotions or feelings are going to serve you going forward? I would like to suggest that positive uplifting feelings (gratitude, happiness, laughter, optimism) would be more productive than the feelings that create a lower vibration, such as sadness, fear, anger.
Following that phonecall, I experienced first-hand the effects of selectively choosing my emotions. We could dwell in the thoughts of how unfair the situation was (we loved living in this beautiful little coastal village – and had only settled there 18 months before) or we could focus on what outcome we wished to experience. I chose to focus on the outcome, even though there were days where I would rather have yelled and screamed and got more frustrated!
As a new business owner, I recognised that one of the solutions was to increase business coming to me. The funny thing was that on days where I was focused on this aim, I was amazed at how many successful phonecalls I made, how I was invited to speak to businesses and groups far and wide. On days where I chose to go into town and chat to everyone, hearing all the stories of challenges various families were facing, even though I still felt optimistic – those were the days where I made little progress in my business.
You see, when our vibration is low, we don’t feel like taking the action to do the things that get us results. Put a thought into your mind, it creates the feeling, the feeling affects the action we take – and it’s the actions that get results.
When everything is hunky-dory, you can absorb a lot more than you can when you’re facing a challenge. Bad news is like water off a duck’s back when everything is going as you wish it to. But when you are faced with a challenge that you want to overcome or turn into a benefit, then you need to selectively only entertain thoughts that serve you to get where you want to go.
I would like to challenge you to think of which feelings and emotions are serving you right now? Are you feeling like a victim? That the company you worked for gave you a really raw deal? Perhaps they did – but your feeling like a victim and allowing it to eat into your soul is not doing anything to them – it’s only destroying you.
Do you feel like no-one appreciates what you do? Perhaps you’re not appreciating what you do! Bitterness twists your soul – and sours all the relationships you have.
If you would like to feel greater happiness, better business success and a more rewarding life, then you will probably decide to focus on the things around you that are going right. What are you grateful for? What thoughts do you need to think to get you there?
When your mind is occupied by positive thoughts, you are much better equipped to deal with the challenges life throws out. If you’re dwelling on the injustices, another challenge is going to feel like you’re drowning at sea and being hit by yet another wave.
Put everything into perspective:
What is the problem not?
Less than a month after the news of job losses and mine closures were announced, everything was put into perspective for us.
Bush fires in Victoria, Australia, claimed thousands of lives and homes – and went on for days. My heart went out to the families that lost loved ones, lost their homes and pets in the fire. The little issues we were facing were so tiny in comparison.
Look at whatever challenge you might be facing right now and identify what the problem really is, and what it’s not. Is it a matter of life and death? Is it a matter of health? Is it about money? Is it about relationships? Is it about business?
What positive memories or events could come out of this that could make a wonderful difference in your life? Sometimes it takes losing someone near and dear to us to shock us into valuing those left behind.
Have a wonderful day,
Kind regards
Jill
“When we change the way you look at things, the things around you begin to change” Wayne Dyer.
If you live in Perth or Sydney, Dr Wayne Dyer is coming to Australia in August 2010. Well worth going to listen to him and the other great speakers.
Jill Hutchison, Attitude Adjustment Coach, LifeSuccess Consultant.
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Are you driving on the wrong side of the road?
As I was driving along, appreciating the magnificence around me, with no other cars on the road, a gentleman walking on the other side of the road made hand gestures beckoning me to him. It took me a second to realise that he was gesturing for me to drive on the RIGHT hand side of the road!
There I was driving along the left side of the road, which is my regular side ala South Africa and Australia. I’d been driving in the States for a week and was rather proud of being able to switch to driving on the other side of the road yet again!
Our paradigms, beliefs and thoughts are very similar to this one habit. Driving on the left hand side of the road is my regular paradigm. It’s neither good nor bad – it just is!
I wouldn’t think to question why – as everyone does it in the countries I have lived in.
Choosing to change it without changing countries would mean risking my life, those of others and certainly would be breaking the law!
In South Africa and Australia, driving on the left hand side of the road is a good habit to have! It keeps you safe, it’s the acceptable behaviour of those in that country.
What if I held onto this habit so securely that I insisted on keeping it while travelling in the USA or parts of Europe? The very behaviour that keeps me safe in Australia is the one that will endanger me in America!
Sure, I could get away with it on some quiet country roads, but as soon as I chose to exercise it in Los Angeles, disaster looms! Could be a very expensive disaster too!
Which of your beliefs, paradigms, values, habits or behaviours served you once, but no longer serve you any more?
Which behaviour used to keep you safe, but is now holding you back?
Now is the time for you to re-evaluate everything that has formed the cornerstone of your life to see what is no longer serving you. What actions, thoughts and beliefs would you like to take on, going forward?
Do you want to run your business the same way as it’s always been run?What has worked for you? What needs an overhaul?
It can be challenging if you’re trying to redesign your life on your own, so get together with your coach or someone you trust who will hold you accountable to your goals and dreams. Find the person that will beckon you to the right side of the road when you are allowing old habits to steer you offtrack!
Success Checklist – Richard Brodie
Creating a Success Checklist gives you a straightforward way to improve your quality of life in any situation.
The first step is to figure out what your fulfillment needs are. Because whatever your idea of success is, it’s going to be something that meets those needs.When you meet all your fulfillment needs, you feel confident, successful, and good about yourself; and you’re generally an enjoyable person to be around.
I’ve heard some people express the concern that all this focus on meeting your own fulfillment needs is being selfish. I understand the concern. But while some of your fulfillment needs may seem selfish, especially at first, other needs are most likely directly related to the contribution you’re making to others or to the world. And if you try, as many do, to deny yourself some of your needs and focus solely on the “altruistic” ones, you won’t have as much energy to put into your altruism.
If you consciously try to deny one of your fulfillment needs, most likely it will squirt out in some other form unconsciously. And if you’re truly “successful” and manage to get your unconscious not to meet that need either—well, then you’ll just feel bad. For many people, “successfully” denying a fulfillment need results in a sense of emptiness or lack of meaning in life.
If you’re ready, it’s time to get out your paper or laptop and write away. There is obviously no “right answer” to any of these questions and prompts; in fact, simply putting down whatever comes to mind will probably give you the most value from this exercise. But do hang in and take the time to search yourself a bit. Doing this exercise could take an hour or even several hours, so you may want to take steps to avoid being interrupted, although it’s fine not to do it all at once. Remember, the emphasis is on feelings and experiences. And be true!
— What do you want?
Let’s just start with the basics. Write down anything that you want in your life. These can be big or small things. Remember—just a few words on the thing, then as much as possible on the experience. Come up with at least ten things you want, and elaborate in great detail on the feelings and experiences you’re looking for.
— What have been the greatest successes of your life so far?
These are successes by your own judgment, not necessarily other people’s (although that’s fine, too). Start with the earliest success you can recall. If you can remember, write down the greatest success of each year of your life. Just include a few words about the event itself; then elaborate on your experience. How did you feel? What was it that made it feel like a success?
— What is it about other people that you admire?
Write down anything you see in other people that you admire. This can be personality traits, accomplishments, or anything else. What is it about the way they’re treated that you would like to have for yourself? What experiences do you see them having that seem attractive to you?
— What are some things you enjoy that don’t fit into the mainstream of life?
Write down activities that you go out of your way or off the beaten path to do, emphasizing, of course, what you like and how you feel about the experiences that go along with the activity.
— What are your most important values?
What ideals do you hold highest, honestly? Of notions such as honesty, wealth, love, integrity, passion, and beauty (but don’t limit yourself to those!), which are truly most important to you?
— What did you really enjoy doing as a kid at play?
Describe the feelings and experiences from some of your most joyous moments as a child playing. Just a few words on the physical description, but elaborate on the experience.
– Describe your ideal job
Go into detail about about how you would feel, what experiences you would have, and how you would be treated.
– Describe your ideal relationship
Go into detail about how you would feel, what experiences you would have and what you would do.
The next step is for you to look back over this you’ve just made and identify the words an phrases that come up in more than one or two places. By looking at the set of feelings and experiences common to the things you want or have considered successes, you can begin to get conscious of the core set of experiences you personally require to have a “success.” So go ahead and make a new list of anything that stands out from the set of feelings and experiences you noticed when answering the above questions. Make your new list now.
This is an edited excerpt from Getting Past OK by Richard Brodie, available at all leading bookstores. Taken from http://hayhouseoz.wordpress.com/2010/06/03/your-success-checklist-richard-brodie/
Gratitude – what’s the big deal about a Gratitude Journal? by Jill Hutchison, Tap Your Next Power Mentor, International Mindset Trainer and LifeSuc
Gratitude is something that is often talked about in many books and videos. What is the big deal about the Gratitude Journal? Why, when I’m feeling as if things are getting me down, should I write down things that I’m grateful for?
“Can’t I rather list all the things that are going wrong in my business?” asked one colleague.
Well, here’s my take on this whole topic! I tell my friends how well it works, I get my clients to do some really great gratitude exercises, and I practice this myself – and I’m still amazed at how well it works!
Our body is in a constant state of vibration. Each cell, each molecule in our body is vibrating at a certain level. In the same way that water is in a different state of vibration in the ice state compared to in the steam state, we operate at different frequencies of vibration. The great thing about this is that we can choose our state of vibration!
Focusing on what is right in our lives will bring more good – you may have read this in “The Secret” or seen it on some of Bob Proctor’s video’s or CD’s. When we are feeling challenged, or when we are feeling despondent or depressed, it is difficult to find things around us that are going the way we want to. Picture a large piece of white paper – with a small black dot drawn in the middle. What do you see? Most people see the black dot – forgetting that 99.5% of the page is actually white space.
Here’s how to do a gratitude exercise. If it sounds too simple to be effective then you probably haven’t done it yet! I read about this in many books – and got a bit irritated by seeing it so many times because it seemed such a minor activity to do, I really didn’t see how it could be of any use in my life (after all, I was fairly positive to start off with!) I’ve since learnt that the things that irk me the most in books when I see them repeatedly, are normally the things that I haven’t done and the ones that will make the biggest impact when I do them!
Make a list of 30 things that you’re grateful for. Begin each sentence with “I’m so happy and grateful for…..” or “I’m so happy and grateful that I have…..”
Key things to remember here: always write these sentences down. It is best to have a Gratitude Journal, but if you’re going to waste time looking for it and run the risk of getting distracted by something else, then just grab the first piece of paper you see, or your daily planner, and start writing there. “Just do it,” as Nike says!
There are a number of important reasons why we write these down – to get as many as possible of our senses involved. When we write them down, we are using our hand, we are seeing the words appear on the page, we are thinking about what else we are grateful for, we are hearing it as we read it back to ourself – we keep focused on finding more things to be happy and grateful for.
The more we tell our subconscious mind that we are happy and grateful, the more it will believe it. Repetition is one of the most effective ways of changing our conditioning – and if you want to feel happier, and have better experiences in life, along with better results, then you might like to try this exercise!
NOW you can buy the Attitude of Gratitude Journal, written by Jill Kean Hutchison. Go to: http://www.jillhutchison.com/gratitude-journal/ to order yours now and experience the difference of getting into the state of Gratitude.
Have a wonderful day – and if you need any help in doing this exercise, please place your details in this box and I will contact you
I would love to hear your experiences after doing this exercise daily for 30 days!
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